How can we solve our problems?
We can always solve other peoples problems, right?
Don't we always have an answer for how others should live life or how to solve their problems? Of course we do.
We are always very good at saying how our friends should be living their life.
Here is a good exercise - If you have a problem ask yourself what you would do if a friend had this same problem that I have - Ask yourself what would I tell my friend?
Think about this and what you would tell your friend... now give this advise to yourself.
Can you follow this advise any better that you expect your friend to follow it if you were to give this advise to them?
If you give yourself good advise you should find yourself wanting to follow this good advise. Yes or No?
Intimacy with oneself is the ideal starting point to creating a successful relationship.
Recognizing needs without judgment widens the field of possibilities for more satisfaction. If we know what our needs are it makes it easier to meet our needs . What are your needs?
Do you know the difference between a need and a want? There is a difference. Although I have met people who want, want, want and they tell me that these things that they want are needs. They will even argue the point if I would listen.
Know the difference between a want and a need and you will be taking a step closer to living a happy life.
Analyzing problems is only useful if the problem can be fixed. If not, a descent into despair can happen by overly focusing on impossible situations.
You can read more on this if you go to the link on Worrying.
Thank you for allowing me to share my thoughts on a life well lived with you.
Lee Miller
I hope that each person who has read this article and the others that I have written will give themselves the project of creating for themselves the best life that they can.
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